師奶殺手~LEO PENG

今天去whole food 走走, LEO又把美國媽媽迷的頭暈目眩, 雖然我不知道LEO到底哪裡迷人, 頭髮少少又站的直直的, 身材被媽媽不多的乳汁搞的都沒有嬰兒肥, 眼睛沒有外國寶寶大, 五官當然是標準的東方大餅臉, 到底是哪裡可愛呢? 每次總有媽媽前來讚美你一句我一句, 搞的我很不好意思, 明明四處都是小寶寶, 她們總不會見到每一個寶寶都要這樣停下來, 跟我說: you are so lucky having such a cute baby. or what a personality. (哈哈哈~我聽的心都飄上雲端了)

我想是因為沒有人可以抵擋小寶寶的笑容, 所以今天有很多人看到LEO都說好他好可愛, 從一直把手放在胸口表達感動之意的媽媽, 還有跟LEO練習說中文的阿桑, 到書店正在聊天的兩個年輕女生, 都是因為LEO見人就笑, 亂放電的結果.


開始副食品後, 每天都要思考該給LEO吃什麼好, surfing pages 時看到澳洲的網頁, 看到她們對該不該抱寶寶的意見:
Spoil a baby in his first year?no way.
Babies whose parents tried to respond promptly to their crying actually cried less, and were more independent as preschoolers, compared to babies who were left to ‘cry it out’. Their earlier experience had made them more secure, so they were better able to handle difficulties by themselves later on. (from Raising Children Network)
回台灣的時候, 媽媽跟我說不要寶寶一哭就去抱(雖然明明就是他一直抱), 寶寶一習慣就會很難帶, 這對我來說很難做到, LEO一哭我心都慌了, 所以他五個月以前媽咪我耳朵都很敏感, LEO一點聲響都可以把我吵醒

當然現在我終於學會分辨LEO的哭聲,哭聲中有痛苦是需要快步前往安撫, 如果是ㄚㄚ叫,就可以先喝完身邊的飲料再起身, 我始終相信小寶寶不會有意哭給你看, 她們雖然聰明, 但是她們是因為有需要又不會說話只好用哭來表達,如果今天LEO會有如今樂觀的好個性, 或許爸爸媽媽快要廢掉的手有一些功勞吧^^